Love Yours

More often singles are tempted to have certain thoughts about an ideal relationship or its specification . Personally i believe a man who believes they have to have certain possession to ideal is a fool , and a lady who believes a man has to have certain things so she can feel a bit secured is no less than the other fool , see when it comes to relationships you really do not have to look elsewhere than within you and you really do not have to move mountains or walk on water to make it work , its all in you , yes you


I remember  reading this certain article that really changed my perspective and it was really straight forward when it comes to what makes a relationship work . See the success of a relationship has more to do with you , Love cannot help you stick to one person all years round , and on the other hand , cheating isn’t always a product of not loving your partner . In fact , loving someone doesn’t guarantee not falling in love with someone else.

Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart . It works out because of our emotional maturity , empathetic intelligence and self discipline , because time will come when you’ll see more beautiful , handsome , romantic , intelligent , sexy , rich , curvy and God fearing people than the one you are in a relationship with . In those times love will not help you , emotional intelligence will come to the rescue and commitment will keep you going . With those characteristics , no matter how you feel for someone else , the person you’re committed to will rank first in your life .

It really takes a content heart to master that art , and a partner who really understands that perspective as much as you do and trust me you have the key ingredients to a solid relationship . And for you to be really content you must not be looking for a relationship because of loneliness or other external factors , you must pretty much be emotional intelligent and committed to yourself and that way you will always settle for whats best for you , so yeah LOVE YOURS!!!!!!!

Think Big And Kick A$$

not that i have anything to do with trump or i’m for trump or not for what i know my life is pretty well with or without Donald Trump , but i really had to give you guys a good personal review on the book i am currently reading and it happens to be a book about Donald Trump . Well for starters not that you have to be real broke to write an inspirational book , but i really do not think a jew who got $5000 for his Bar Mitzvah and a company with a capability of generating $5,5 million a year is a perfect candidate to talk about hardships and someones impact in their life . For me it just does not sell the story well .


Well from the word go it simply sounds like a well funded praise Trump campaign with bad narrator , from the word go the writer simply did not sell the first joint venture story well , and it simply faded off from the book just like that . Secondly the checklist or quiz as stated in the book sounded like some what of a Bethel you need to be jerk lesson , judging by the outcome and expected answers .

For me personally i refuse to view a person as a character portrayed by the media , i simply take them for what they are , a person nothing much . But if this was well meant to tell Trumps side of the story , very well the media might not have been that wrong about the American President , but very well who knows i might learn something quite useful as proceed reading the book.

Securing A Safe Trading

not that i am against the sudden rise of the number of young folks showing an interest in the stock markets industry but i want to equip you with knowledge that would atleast guide you on how to go about making a living in that industry not because you saw someone portraying the lavish life they earned through trading , do bear in mind that whoever wants to sell you success overnight is only interested on your money than your growth .

Here are few tips that could help you spot a scam from a mile away , do read this with an objective mind i know some deals might seem too legit and do not need scrutiny but do use these guidelines to asses your trades :

The Old Forex Scam

The old forex scam was founded based on computer manipulation of bid/ask spreads. The point spread between the bid and ask basically reflects the commission of a back and forth transaction processed through a broker. These spreads typically differ between currency pairs. The scam occurs when those point spreads widely differ among brokers. Brokers often do not offer the normal two- to three-point spread in the EUR/USD, for example, but spreads of seven pips or more. Factor four or more pips on every $1 million trade, and any potential gains resulting from a good investment are eaten away by commissions.  This scam has quieted down over the last 10 years, but be careful of those offshore retail brokers who are not regulated by the CFTC, NFA or their nation of origin. These tendencies still exist and it’s quite easy for firms to pack up and disappear with the money when confronted with actions. Many saw a jail cell for these computer manipulations.

Signaling the Scam
A popular modern-day scam is the signal seller. Signal sellers are people who may be a retail firm, pooled asset manager, managed account company or individual trader who promises to trade based on professional recommendations that will make anyone wealthy. They tout their long experience and trading abilities with backing by people who will practically testify in court on how great a trader and friend the person is, and the vast wealth that this person has earned for them. All the unsuspecting trader has to do is hand over X amount of dollars for the privilege of trade recommendations. Many of these people simply collect money from a certain amount of traders and disappear. Some will recommend a good trade now and then, to allow the signal money to perpetuate. While this new scam is slowly becoming a wider problem, many signal sellers are honest and perform trade functions as intended

Scamming in Today’s Market
A persistent scam, old and new, presents itself in some types of forex-developed trading systems. These people tout their system’s ability to generate automatic trades that, even while you sleep, earn vast wealth. Today, the new terminology is “robot,” because of the ability to work automatically. Either way, many of these systems have not been submitted and tested by an independent source for formal review. Examination factors must include the testing of a trading system’s parameters and optimization codes. If the parameters and optimization codes are invalid, the system will generate random buy and sell signals. This will cause unsuspecting traders to do nothing more than gamble. Although tested systems exist on the market, potential forex traders should research the system they wish to implement into their trading strategy .


Other Factors to Consider
Traditionally, many trading systems have been quite costly. Just a few short years ago, $5,000 was not much to pay for a system. This can be viewed as a scam in itself. No trader should pay more than a few hundred dollars for a proper system. Be especially careful of system sellers that offer programs at exorbitant prices justified by guaranteeing phenomenal results. Although many crooks sell systems, there are plenty of sellers who are decent and legitimate and have systems that have been properly tested to potentially earn substantial income.

SEE: Is Your Forex Broker A Scam?

Another persistent problem is the commingling of funds. Without a record of segregated accounts, individuals cannot track the exact performance of their investments. As a result, many principles of retail firms are able to pay exorbitant salaries, buy houses, cars and planes or just disappear with a customer’s money.


Warning Signs
Other scams and warning signs exist when brokers won’t allow the withdrawal of monies from investor accounts, or when problems exist within the trading station. Can you enter or exit a trade during an economic announcement that is not in line with expectations? If you can’t withdraw money, warning signs should flash. If the trade station doesn’t operate to your liquidity expectations, warning signs should again flash. An important factor to always consider when choosing a broker or a trading system to satisfy your personal goals is to be skeptical of promises or promotional material that guarantees a high level of performance.

Of the 193 cases filed with the NFA in 2008 for rules and law violations, 166 were settled within nine months, but only 23% received lost funds. Therefore, similar to the circumstances that present themselves in a Ponzi scheme, even when those who deliberately engage in forex scams are brought to justice, investor reimbursement is not guaranteed.

The Bottom Line
To investigate your broker, the Background Affiliation Status Information Center system was introduced. Many of these changes have driven out the crooks, the unwanted and the old scams and legitimized the system for the many good firms. However, always be wary of new forex scams, as the temptation and allure of huge profits will always bring new and more sophisticated types to this market.





Life Offline

As black young adults i think we face an enormous pressure when it comes to recovering from our childhoods and securing that ideal future where our kids would not have to recover from their childhood like us .

but as young adults i think we are not engaging much in life skills building activities , we are more about “social calls ” whenever we meet up with friends , and the funny thing about that is that whenever its a social call expenditure has to be involved , be it buying a couple of drinks , meeting up by the park , watching movies at the local cinema  or things as simple as social networks interactions , there’s always a bill to be paid.

In retrospect our relationships are simply an expense than a gain and in one way or another it ultimately affects the relationship as a whole in the long run whenever one comes to realization of the expense or when they simply want grow into a stage were interactions simply lead to business or new business ventures .

With the other race(s) , relationships and interactions are their source of income and growth . There’s really some element of growth in life skills building activities , and the funny part is that they do not cost a thing and they can simply grow from a hobby to a trade . If only more black kids would focus on this skills like growing your own food , painting , writing , carving or play some sports , yes they are not as appealing   as that profile will a formidable follower-ship on instagram or  that fancy table at the club or that good street cred ekasi , but they shape up the character and in a later stage if well natured are more likely to end as an extra source of income , or ticket that would take you from being an employee to being an employer , since of late one can hardly cope on a single income .

Personally i also had to work on an activity outside my comfort zone and long list of “do well activities” , so i decided to take up growing a garden of spinach last year , and yes i had to be real to myself and determined to make it work and interesting enough the journey was equally rewarding , and the (plus) part , it was easy to handle even after a long day at work . It really made it simple to use the same set of skills i learned when growing the garden elsewhere like right here on my blog , so imagine what you can achieve in life with such a mentality .


Bethel Madida


as part of the welcoming statement i would like to share my sentiments when it comes to embracing your character , honestly speaking the greatest form of slavery is taking away the free gift of embracing your true thoughts as a person because of various reasons imposed by the world , especially when they genuinely come from the depth of your mind  , its more like deprivation of existence , our solemn purpose as humans is to play a specific and unique role in this world and our duty is to find that role and our real purpose in essence is to give it away , and my gift as an individual from a young age was to help others realize that quest hence i turned to working on this blog and investing my times and thoughts on travelling on this exciting journey with you , and im quite sure you will help me help you  … yours truly  Bethel